My lesbian/queer friends say that I am a handsome lesbian. And they mean it. Not sure whether to be flattered or change something. The photo in the red shirt was after a shower and shave with my favorite regimen—I went from my building to the Starbucks and I had two women behind me literally tell me that "I smelled like a unicorn dipped in heaven." The barista rang up my order and asked me if I was an actor with the same two women chiming in. Then they all told me that I was "Too put together…" Do I look like I am putting out a weird vibe that confuses people with my look, because I am quite comfortable with my look.