I was starting to wonder if/when you were officially moving. It sounds like the right thing for you, I hope it is. Don't freak out too much, just take it slow and careful, and keep the lines of communication wide open.

i like the goldfish analogy.
of course youre freaked out, but the feelings wont kill you, it just feels like they will.

i have a history of moving in and out with my man too. i think we've been living together 5 whole years this incarnation - a record for us. its hard, all that change.
i like your talk about the photo nook

there is this great story told by Conan O'Brien: He's walking through an airport and is approached by what turns out to be the leader of a fear-of-flying encounter group, off to their first flight. He wants conan to say something encouraging to the group. conan freezes. all he can muster is: It's cool, my babies! (but said in conan voice.)

all of that, so i can say to you dear girl: It's ALL cool, my babies.

Yeah, it's on the the east side.