I'm glad to hear you are feeling somewhat better. I certainly don't know how you feel, but I can tell you it is definetely hard to get used to someone not being there. I just moved and am not around any of my friends or family anymore. Everyone is 1300 miles away.
If you need to talk about it, I'm here as a neutral stranger.
I liked Oldboy, but I thought it was a little overrated. It's a great movie, a great genre piece, really tragic and dramatic, but it's also completely over the top in a way a lot of people are going to find inaccessable. What'd you think?