so, here's my new dilemma...
there is this guy who is interested in me and i am interested in him. i used to see him all the time at the gym but he took the summer off, so we have only been chatting through email and texting. i haven't seen him since probably early july and that was only briefly that i saw him.
we started getting better acquainted through facebook, which he doesn't have anymore and i never use. i was assuming that he had looked through it and seen my pictures~which included baby stuff. but, now i have this fear that he doesn't know that i am pregnant. what should i do?
this is where i need male advice (and of course female advice is always welcome too)
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do i just go on "assuming" he knows and try to hang out with him and deal with it then? or do i ask him now? and if i do ask him if he knows, how do i go about doing so? i was thinking of just asking him if he had looked at my facebook photos and just go from there. i just don't know what to do.
the thing is~and i know this~is that if the thought of me being prego is going to bother him, then he's not the one for me. if he's a good guy for me, then that little fact shouldn't turn him off that much, right? or am i just kidding myself?
either way, the truth is eventually going to come out...i just need advice on when and how.
so, guys, please please PLEASE offer up your advice!
there is this guy who is interested in me and i am interested in him. i used to see him all the time at the gym but he took the summer off, so we have only been chatting through email and texting. i haven't seen him since probably early july and that was only briefly that i saw him.
we started getting better acquainted through facebook, which he doesn't have anymore and i never use. i was assuming that he had looked through it and seen my pictures~which included baby stuff. but, now i have this fear that he doesn't know that i am pregnant. what should i do?
this is where i need male advice (and of course female advice is always welcome too)
~~~do i just go on "assuming" he knows and try to hang out with him and deal with it then? or do i ask him now? and if i do ask him if he knows, how do i go about doing so? i was thinking of just asking him if he had looked at my facebook photos and just go from there. i just don't know what to do.
the thing is~and i know this~is that if the thought of me being prego is going to bother him, then he's not the one for me. if he's a good guy for me, then that little fact shouldn't turn him off that much, right? or am i just kidding myself?
either way, the truth is eventually going to come out...i just need advice on when and how.
so, guys, please please PLEASE offer up your advice!
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he already knew, but thought I had had the baby already, but he doesn't care. Yay! so, its out there and its all good. he still wants to get to know me better and all that good stuff, so I am a happy chica!
until then, know that I'm super happy for you!