I'm just saying that people who feel you owe them sex or objectifying you and people complaining about crud like the friends zone are two different things. Maybe you know someone who does both but that's something else again.
But fuck, it's so frustrating. Whyy! God dammit they are all idiots, even the nice ones that can carry a conversation.
And word to your blog. I've never thought of it like that before but you're very right.
+1 to Snottlebocket. Though what you are describing is actually neither of those things, but instead a predator. Do not confuse them. They are far more dangerous than the misguided "friend zoners" and sexist men who think they are "owed" anything.
I'm sorry to hear of your hardships in life; I hope you find a way to let go of your anger and find happiness.
I used to be that whiny guy. Now I really don't give a shit if someone wants to have sex with me. I find a lot of women love the game of flirting, but few actually have the ovaries to do anything about it.
I aint gonna lie, yeah I am interested in fucking you. That however is not all i am interested in. I friended you because I liked the way you think. Sex is one thing but if you can't carry on a conversation with someone then what the hell do you need em for. The friend zone sucks yes, but then again so does not getting to know somebody in the first place. Do I feel like you (or any of the women who have put me in the friend zone) owe me anything. Hell no. Does that mean I have given up hope of sex. Hell no. I learned a long time ago All things come to those who are patient.
Ugh, I once read this "nice guy's" blog who wanted a reward for not assaulting a vulnerable woman he took home. It made me want to break out the flame thrower!
One of the reasons why I let all girls know that, given the right circumstances, I would totally hit that. Not that it matters now because I'm not available
Ive been in the friend zone. I don't have issues with it. It is what it is and I don't expect anything. Just figure Im not the one for them and life goes on. I've also been on the other side. Just went through that with my "friend" John...ugh he got pissed off and us back to ignoring me as he tries this shit every year....lame...
