likewise - now I start by looking at the blogs, check in with folks, and occasionally check out sets - usually when they're mentioned in a blog! I think that this 'balance' is what is good about SG. I know there are issues - aren't there always? but it fundamentally is about people, lives, and life, and then about boobs, skin, and ink (which better not go away!)
i don't know if you're a lesser pervet or just more selective. I found that i came for the boobs but say for the people i've met. Still tis nice to see some lady parts and no that there are going to be new sets every day.
random boobs = good
smart, fun, interesting people = even better
I have met some of the coolest people through this site, even lucky enough to meet some in person, which is a trend I hope continues.
I agree with you on the sets, unless I think it looks interesting or it's someone I know I like, I rarely bother anymore.
And, it's safe to say, HQ is fucking nuts for rejecting you. I'd love to see some of the photos; have you thought about posting them in the Rejected Sets from SGs group? You can also see what amazing company you're in ....