I feel bad for you. My last relationship ended in San Diego. I think the city eats them for breakfast. Good Luck for the rest of the week. I think I can feel the discomfort from here.
Sounds like a bummer of a night, but how you describe you handle these situations (ignoring him and basically letting it slide) is exactly what I now know causes so much trouble and heartache later on; unfortunately I'm speaking for current and on-going experience. Sometimes its just better to have it out, face reality and if that means splitting - then so be it; well thats my opinion anyway.
I must admit I have my temper tantrums and become completely unreasonable (like your boyfriend), mainly because I don't like to be criticsed or want some attention (and he's probably missed you!); unfortunately they never solve anything and just cause problems. The worst thing of all is when my girlfriend doesn't react, shout, scream, cry or show any kind of emotion in response, and basically pretends it didn't happen - then I get really mad
At least seeing your friends kinda makes it a little better, I miss my old friends and should make more time for us all to get back together and get arseholed
That is something I don't get. Driving like an asshole, especially when other people are in the car. But then again I have a huge problem with people doing anything that could endanger other people. The dude deserved to be ranked on. Two of the worst fights I ever got into were with friends over dumbass stunts while they were driving. One was drunk and refused to give up they're keys, the other was just driving like an asshole and nearly hit a bunch of kids.
I don't care how much it humilates someone or who it is. I'll be the first to get in someones face when they do stupid shit in a car.
What an inconsiderat baby. The dude could of least left the car found his own way home.
Too bad that happened. Hope you can enjoy the rest of the visit.
Take it from a friend, if it isn't working, is it really worth keeping? My last relationship lasted about a year too long. We both realized that, after the fact. We had seven years invested into it and we didn't want to give that up, but it was time. I'm not saying your situation is the same, but it is something to think about. Distance is tough on a relationship and it has a way of amplifying problems. It can be worked through, but it is tough. Really tough. Godspeed.
it sucks being in a bad situation with someone you are in a relationship with and you are away from home. I was in a relationship and it ended on new years eve 3 years ago. my girlfriend lived in Indiana, and we were at her friends house, and she started getting all up on this guy that she used to date. so I told her I wanted to leave but she wasn't ready to go, so I walked home, it was like 0 degrees outside and it was snowing (i know, it sounds like once of those 'back in my day' stories) it took like 2 hours of walking before she realized that i left. long story short, relationships suck, just have friends. she was mad because i made her drive drunk from her friends house, and she was having a good time. i haven't been in a relationship, or even tried to hook up with someone since all that happened.
Look on the bright side, free drinks!