durand:
Is she moving for you? Does she have other supports in your area? Family/friends/a doctor?

If you're having second thoughts you should discuss it with her beforehand. You guys might be fine when she moves out and you might not be. You won't really know until she's there. I'm hoping she has other people around in case it doesn't work out as planned.

It would be a good idea to check out counsellors and/or doctors before the move. Good luck and I hope it works out for you. smile
burntsolace:
I agree that having her move out there with you are her sole point of contact would be dangerous.

I hope things start to look up for you.
skullgrid:
distance definitely can be a killer... that was ultimately what did my last LDR in. i say if you have a shot at eliminating the distance, try it. you won't know how it's going to be, otherwise... and if you've endured it this long, you two owe it to yourselves to at least find that out