Good luck my friend. Just go with it and don't think too much about it.
I'd love to meet this girly friend of yours.

You ditch me.. just saying. Jesus.

But I'm so stoked for you!

Word on not overthinking things! If you get everything you want, you be thankful for it all, and be content.

Good luck with it!

I got my leather harness at: http://www.sub-shop.com/index.aspx
hurry..the site is closing and the prices are phenominal...I'm really pleased with the quality as well.

However, since you're in the city I also highly reccomend Mr. S Leather on 8th st. south of market. it's my fav in the area. they have a much smaller womens section than they do mens but it's still my fave.