Woah, that sucks, my condolences and sympathy to you all.

That had to be a terrible experience, I'm sorry to hear it.

Condolences to you & yours.

So sorry to hear this. Intuition man, w omen's in particular, it's some crazy shit.

I'm glad you've been able to keep your spirits up

Oh my gosh - so sorry for your loss! My condolences!! Wishing you and your wife - and her family - peace during this difficult time. xo

I've been known to have a cigar once in a blue moon when out drinking, but that's about it. Cigarette smoke has never bothered me, but I've never really had the urge to light up, either.
I was actually the trigger to get both of my parents to quit cold turkey from two packs a day, too... mom caught me dangerously close to working a lighter at about 18 months, and they both dropped it right then

That's a bummer you drove all the way out to meet everyone and didn't manage to, hopefully next time we'll be a bit more organized!

Oh man, I'm so sorry to hear that. My sincerest condolences.

As for the jersey, Madbrothers.com can sort you out with a jersey from any player in the film.