You are your only advocate. You are a 24/7 campaign for yourself.
Yes. This is everyone.
Everyone gets to decide -- especially by this age; we have all figured it out by now. Lay it all out on the table, or choose only to put out part. But if you air only the side that you "prefer to show," then you shouldn't feel gypped when people decide things based on what they see.
Or don't see.
Not everyone lays out the same ratio. People take different risks for different gain.
Nothing is or was out of your control.
People stick around for years because they're satisfied with having less for longer. To a point, it's loyalty. But there does come that point .. where you don't know what you're waiting for.
Yes. This is everyone.
Everyone gets to decide -- especially by this age; we have all figured it out by now. Lay it all out on the table, or choose only to put out part. But if you air only the side that you "prefer to show," then you shouldn't feel gypped when people decide things based on what they see.
Or don't see.
Not everyone lays out the same ratio. People take different risks for different gain.
Nothing is or was out of your control.
People stick around for years because they're satisfied with having less for longer. To a point, it's loyalty. But there does come that point .. where you don't know what you're waiting for.