Sorry my first post here has to be in the "bitching" category -- but as a new face I am a bit frustrated. I wanted to join some groups, but they sure make you work for it.
Several have stipulations of "must have so many comments", or "so many months on SG", or simply a pending situation. Arg. How annoying for someone like me who can't wait to get talking with you all.
Specifically, I'm talking about the bisexual group. I'm not going to wait 3 months to have a chat. You're assuming outright that anyone w/o that backlog of SG time is not worth talking to and I'm not a fan of the anti-noob mentality especially when there are no other options for noobs. WTF bi's -- why no love?!
As for the comment requirements -- I'm certainly not going to go comment on 300 people's profiles just to prove to you that I can be an engaged community member.
In short: pfffffffff.
I considered making my own group, but then there's probably a review time before publication as well as the fact that *I* would be the *only* one in it. What is the point of THAT?
Gar. I hope my pending status is revised soon, and I must not understand the mentality of this site as well as I thought I did.
- HKK
Several have stipulations of "must have so many comments", or "so many months on SG", or simply a pending situation. Arg. How annoying for someone like me who can't wait to get talking with you all.
Specifically, I'm talking about the bisexual group. I'm not going to wait 3 months to have a chat. You're assuming outright that anyone w/o that backlog of SG time is not worth talking to and I'm not a fan of the anti-noob mentality especially when there are no other options for noobs. WTF bi's -- why no love?!
As for the comment requirements -- I'm certainly not going to go comment on 300 people's profiles just to prove to you that I can be an engaged community member.
In short: pfffffffff.
I considered making my own group, but then there's probably a review time before publication as well as the fact that *I* would be the *only* one in it. What is the point of THAT?
Gar. I hope my pending status is revised soon, and I must not understand the mentality of this site as well as I thought I did.
- HKK
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h_man:
Agreed.
abjabber:
Welcome! Being a noob does suck, i still feel that a little. I cant even tag haha. It's the handful of assholes that ruin the fun for nice and honest people. Just be patient and you'll get into all the groups you like! Take care.