thee_blacklisted:
people lie 'cause they're really fucked up and hate themselves and any number of reasons like stemming from the worst possible place.

that said, i hate liars and will not truck w/ them, no way.
123repeater:
i like the liars. i think they're a great band.....

......seriously though, liars do suck. as a reformed compulsive liar myself, i can say i've seen the effects of lies i've told penetrate deep. i know i've hurt some people, some irreferably. my new policy is brutal honesty, which isn't always popular either, but a lot easier to handle the concequences of.
i don't think that it's an "afraid to be honest" thing though. i was never afraid of the truth, as i was afraid of myself. i lied to help invent an identity for myself (i was adopted). i had to figure out who i was before i could stop lying. lesson for all possible future liars: learn to love yourself. it helps.
also, you're wrong about lying getting you nowhere.

it gets you nice and alone.

fast.

"my all time favorite fight song anthem is the sound of cars hitting dividers..."
the john wilkes kissing booth, "my most hated love song"

cheers love.
(honest!)
temptess:
Amen for the truth sista! I just got verbally beat up for being totally honest in my journal about what I think and why, and apparently that makes me "predatory and attacking". Then don't fuckin' read it, right?