So, out of 11 women, I selected 3 women that I wanted to meet if they agreed. I just found out that I got one match.
Now, this match; WOW!
She is maybe 5 foot 9, or 10, a slim brunette with subtle red highlights. We started at the same table, and chatted amiably for about 5 minutes before the dating game started.
The notes that I wrote down were, "intelligent, and strong willed." I also remember that she is in the Oil & Gas Industry, and has been divorced for 6 years now.
In a humorous way, she successfully controlled the 7 minute date, and at times it felt like a job interview. She wanted to know about past relationships, how long they lasted, etc.
I was mostly successful in not grinning over her barrage of questions, and in the end we both enjoyed our short time together...
I was initially attracted to her physically (I always give extra points for tall, intelligent women), but also became more and more interested in her personality. It was easily the best "date" of the night.
Based on the comments I heard form the other men there, she is the best pick. If we hit it off, then she would challenge me in a good way.
wow, i find it stunning that it worked for you! My freind mike has been taunting me to try it forever... I have visions of balding socially awkward middle aged men nervously chatting or living into bad stereotypes.
So the scene was good!?
Tell me more.
well i hope it all goes well.i had to laugh went i read that most look tame..
it reminded me of when i went to this job interview and the guy was hitting on me..here's kinda how it went
so you have tattoo's hey..
me- yes
you must live a pretty eXXXciting life tell me more about what makes you different(me staring at him so he adds)....than the other people applying for the job..(but really implying about me sexually)
me- well hmm????(pervert) i'm pretty much like everyone else,i watch tv and read and pretty much don't do anything to different than anyone else?(idiot)
well i met my last girlfriend at work..maybe we should go out for a drink..
me-oh..umm well thats nice does she still work here????(no i'm not going to fuck u to get a job)
haha anyway it just reminded me of how people will jump to conclusions about your life style from the way you look...he actually was much more rude and aggressive than that..
my friend jen likes to think that guys who dress up in suits and have to hide there wild side are more kinky than guys who have tattoo's and piercings etc..it's an interesting theory..lol...one i haven't personally tested yet.but i think it's more the persons vibe i find sexy than there style.
-k