I already knew the answer before even trying. I’m way too difficult to live with, I even have trouble with the way I am so I would never put anyone else through that.
I wanna make sure we talk about the big life questions! Do you want kids? Where do you wanna live? Your lifestyle? Goals? Dreams? Expectations for each other etc
Finances - who’s going to pay the bills & how! We put all money in a joint account, I paid everything. My brother & his wife have separate personal accounts & contribute to the Household account according to their income (60/40 or whatever).