That sounds like a lot of drama that you can do without. Perhaps the change in geography will clear the path for surprising pleasantries. I'm certain your set will be phenomenal, and until it is released we will all wait with bated breath.
Glad to see more girls from NZ putting sets up. Your life is sounding far to complex for little old NZ, I hope it settles down for you and the move goes well.
Congrats on the set going live in Members Review. You look great! Remember, few girls get Pink on their first set, so don't get disappointed if you don't go pink first go round.. just keep at it.