dude, i'd say a significant portion of the women i meet arent good enough in bed to get me off (maybe like 15-20%), so (to me at least) thats not so strange.
and as far as your dating woes go, do what i do. dont date. it works for me extremely well.
also, i was under the impression i was your man crush. feelin a little bit hurt right now, buddy.
sf is so lively and fun.. something to do everywhere and everything is so close to everything else!
in l.a. you have to drive miles from place to place.. lame! my aunt lives in Tennessee! i have no idea where though.. she constantly asks me to visit.. her husband is in the military so she's not used to it out there. but hey it snows.... so that's neat so you totally have your hands full with school... i like being busy.... so is it crazy to say i would enjoy having more school work....
Hope the school work gets less soon, but it's for a good cause!
About the sex on a first date thing, it's not always bad. Me and my bf had sex on the first date and we're together for 5 years But it sucks if it wasn't good for you, or if it made you feel bad .
I do hope you find a nice girl soon, and in the mean time try to enjoy the dating process!
Lots of love,
xxx
As for the sex thing, Its a nice surprise to hear this. I think back to a time when I was single and I got out of hand. After being in a 7 year almost non sexual relationship, I binged on weiner for a good month before I disgusted myself out. I remember thinking how pathetic and easy these guys were and I would invite them over and then kick them out. Reading your blog about that made me feel those guys were thinking I was pathetic and easy hahaha but at least I hit a point and stopped. My concern now is that my current relationship is a good one but also very sexless and often my bf doesnt get off. It certainly does bother me large. I peg it down to the fact ive chubbed up over the last year. Sigh.
Im going to go sprint now. lol
remind me not to talk about my sex life ever again. ahaha
i don't think human interaction is easy in general, least of all with all those added hormones. I met bf on here so I got to avoid most of the awkward haha. But if anything that whole interaction will resound as a "I should avoid this situation" kinda thing
blargh. that sounds stressful. but I'm sure you'll get it all done with time to spare.
I've always been incredibly comfortable around people, I just don't like most of them so I don't bother. Don't get me wrong people I click with or have mutual interests with I'll invest energies in but most humans just harsh my mellow. It was a happy circumstance meeting the fella on here, and it avoids that whole "i have an SG, and this is what that means" conversation...altho I do think that it's an easier explanation from a male. If you find someone with enough common ground it should go over swimmingly haha and I know exactly what you mean about finding that commonality. Relationships that exist out of mutual admiration and respect last I think. If its more about fancying the actual human, your less likely to be disappointed by later action.
good eclectic musical tastes does make life more exciting...and its always good when you find kindred musical tastes...especially if the other is cute
oh and I listened to the video...i love devil wears prada...i love zombies its an all around win.
so you totally have your hands full with school... i like being busy.... so is it crazy to say i would enjoy having more school work....
But it sucks if it wasn't good for you, or if it made you feel bad 
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and as far as your dating woes go, do what i do. dont date. it works for me extremely well.
also, i was under the impression i was your man crush. feelin a little bit hurt right now, buddy.