It was a toss up between this a rabbit or a Phallix but Elle and I read an article a long time ago in Salon.com about a women who takes control of her life (somehow) by doing her boyfriend with a strapon. Apparently it wasnt a sexual thing as in getting off, more emotional. After Elle read it she announced that this is something we HAVE to do. Its taken a while but the first step is taken. The running joke is its gonna make me gay.