"If the heart's not in it there's no point dragging it out"

Gotta say, I agree with that. It's a terribly hard thing to do though - still respecting and looking up to the girl, but knowing that hurting her's your only option. Hope you had something to do afterwards, rather than sitting home feeling like a heel.

On a more positive note, go here and join up.

I know hard as hell. Oh and yeah I felt a complete heel and unfortunately I stayed in. Still could be worse I could have stayed with her and ended up with her feeling even worse in a few weeks. As it was she had already got more attached that I thought she was

oooh you've arrived , but i think it may be your round

* rattles empty glass *

Fuck already! Ahh well time to go fleece the puggy for some cash