How fucking out of touch am I?!?!?! A member of my firend's list, that I've actually met before even, is getting married and I was clueless. I suck.
Congrats, but don't let the BS drag down the happiest moment of your life! Weddings and all the accompaniament are supposed to be a celebration! Make sure it's fun!
yeah no I was just so slammed with moving that I packed all the painting stuff in my car seperately and moved it. now that I'm moved in, I can frame them and get em on the road northward.
-yeah, money's always good- let me finish being an ass and get them properly ready for delivery and we'll work that out.
Dave
Your maid of honor should be the one hosting your bridal shower, with assistance from the bridesmaids. That's the traditional part, as I understand it. If they're not organizing it, just say you feel weird about it being done differently.
While guys sometimes may attend such things, I think it's just weird. I would not be such a guy to attend them. Unless it was my bride, and then I might consider it, out of respect for the people attending.
Weddings are fun - I can understand the reluctance of inviting friends or coworkers...you don't want them bored, or causing a ruckus.
The upside for you, is that your family gets to see a more complete picture of you, from a reflection of the people you have chosen to surround you. (IE, if you don't invite friends, they'll think you don't have any or that you're ashamed of them. If you don't invite coworkers, they think you don't like your job or its a source of embarassment.)
well I applied to sgseattle like forever ago. . .but whateve. . . .
I doubt making an event tho because i'm actually trying to unload stuff so I can move again. . .
All this is neither here nor there. . .
Well I'm out in W. Seattle so Cap Hill isn't too far. . . I used to go out tehre every mon for work, but not anymore. . .
So yeah just lemme know what's good for you. I might be outta town this weekend, but who knows. . .
Oh and just a note. . .The case for season four is JACKED. When I bought it and got it home they had taped the crap together so if you want I can knock off $5. The discs all play tho!