Bad and nasty thoughts for boy who upset close mate. I mean. If you are having second thoughts about meeting someone you have INSISTED books a certain hotel, have agreed to pay half of the cost and then stand her up, the LEAST you can do is apologise, and pay for half of the cost of the room you wanted to get when the girl you were supposed to be meeting has paid for it upfront and could have stayed at a friend's for nothing. What a LOSER. I say that again to emphasise the point. This guy is a LOSER.
No one cares if something comes up unexpectedly. Let's face it, life is never simple and these things have a habit of happening. It is not that you expect the unexpected, it is just that sometimes that is what you get. If you have second thoughts about a situation, again, it happens. No one expects you to go through with something you feel uncomfortable with for whatever reason. No one even expects you to explain how you feel in great detail. What reasonable people do though is to at least advise the person you are not coming, that you feel bad but you have had second thoughts and you damn well pay half the hotel bill for the room you insisted on getting in the first place. It is not fucking hard now is it? Really.
These things happen. Nerves. Realisation you want something else. Something unplanned arises. If you have spent a month (a MONTH) telling someone you have feelings and you want to see them etc etc etc, then have the balls to say things have changed.
Damn it to hell - he talked to me Saturday night on the verge of going out to see my matee about how he was looking forward to seeing her. The same as he said to her every single day for a month. Then she gets nothing. Texts fly (not back and forth as he was would not reply) just asking if he was OK. I mean, after the initial pissed off thoughts you naturally worry the guy is in hospital or a ditch or something dreadful has happened. No. Nothing. Tosser.
So, he turns up on MSN last night and without getting involved (it is up to him to actually realise he shoudl be a man and admit what is going on), he says he is OK and that he got some cider and went to a park and drank til the sun rose with a girl. All I know about the girl (I was not going to get involved as it is not my place to) is that she was in need of his help and she was there for him when he really needed her.
Not a problem. No one minds, but a quick text. A minute of his time and he could have communicated that to my mate who was left high and dry.
What. A. Twat.
No one cares if something comes up unexpectedly. Let's face it, life is never simple and these things have a habit of happening. It is not that you expect the unexpected, it is just that sometimes that is what you get. If you have second thoughts about a situation, again, it happens. No one expects you to go through with something you feel uncomfortable with for whatever reason. No one even expects you to explain how you feel in great detail. What reasonable people do though is to at least advise the person you are not coming, that you feel bad but you have had second thoughts and you damn well pay half the hotel bill for the room you insisted on getting in the first place. It is not fucking hard now is it? Really.
These things happen. Nerves. Realisation you want something else. Something unplanned arises. If you have spent a month (a MONTH) telling someone you have feelings and you want to see them etc etc etc, then have the balls to say things have changed.
Damn it to hell - he talked to me Saturday night on the verge of going out to see my matee about how he was looking forward to seeing her. The same as he said to her every single day for a month. Then she gets nothing. Texts fly (not back and forth as he was would not reply) just asking if he was OK. I mean, after the initial pissed off thoughts you naturally worry the guy is in hospital or a ditch or something dreadful has happened. No. Nothing. Tosser.
So, he turns up on MSN last night and without getting involved (it is up to him to actually realise he shoudl be a man and admit what is going on), he says he is OK and that he got some cider and went to a park and drank til the sun rose with a girl. All I know about the girl (I was not going to get involved as it is not my place to) is that she was in need of his help and she was there for him when he really needed her.
Not a problem. No one minds, but a quick text. A minute of his time and he could have communicated that to my mate who was left high and dry.
What. A. Twat.
saffa:
tell her to dump his ass 