I Don't Understand Some Women!!
So, my friend and I went out about 6 bweeks ago and met up with a girl he used to work with. It was great fun and the beer flowed. She was the girl I kissed that night.
She liked my mate. Kept telling him how gorgeous he is and flirting loads. I was really happy for him as he rarely gets attention. I was really pleased for him.
She has spent 6 weeks texting anc calling him and asking him to meet her but things have not worked out until last Friday.
Friday she called him and arranged to meet him in a bar. He turned up and she was with 3 friends. In his words she was "all over him like a rash". Awww - that is superb. 2 mates of hers left and that left 3 of them. Her best mate and the 2 of them. They went on to another bar and had a few more drinks and all was going really well. The other girl left leavint he 2 of them - hoorah.
They went for chips and she invited my mate back to hers
So, he stayed the night and got up early the next morning as he was an usher at his friend's wedding that day. She asked if she could come to the reception so he invited her to the evening do. She came along having been in a panic what to wear etc. He chatted to her, introduced her to those people who asked (just her name) and it was good.
She left and then texted him saying that he had the wrong end of the stick? What? Huh? Eh?
She pursued him for 6 weeks, she invited him out on Friday. She asked him to come out on Friday. She asked him to stay at hers. She asked to go to the wedding but he got the wrong idea?
It is not as tough he introduced her as his girlfriend as he didn't think she was. It was not as though he thought it was anything serious but was prepared to see where, if anywhere, it was going. tt was not as though he was pushy or clingy. He is simply not like that. But she went from being all over him to nothing.
Just
Like
That
I know it happens and maybe it is not just females who are like this but I simply don't get it. Have fun and enjoy it as such. Don't make assumptions as to how the other person feels. Don't treat people like idiots. It is simply unfair.
He is fine. He is laughing about it but it still hurt him. He was not trying to force anything. He was just enjoying a moment. She should have just let him have he benefit of the doubt and carry on with the friendship they had, Now they have both lost out.
So, my friend and I went out about 6 bweeks ago and met up with a girl he used to work with. It was great fun and the beer flowed. She was the girl I kissed that night.
She liked my mate. Kept telling him how gorgeous he is and flirting loads. I was really happy for him as he rarely gets attention. I was really pleased for him.
She has spent 6 weeks texting anc calling him and asking him to meet her but things have not worked out until last Friday.
Friday she called him and arranged to meet him in a bar. He turned up and she was with 3 friends. In his words she was "all over him like a rash". Awww - that is superb. 2 mates of hers left and that left 3 of them. Her best mate and the 2 of them. They went on to another bar and had a few more drinks and all was going really well. The other girl left leavint he 2 of them - hoorah.
They went for chips and she invited my mate back to hers
So, he stayed the night and got up early the next morning as he was an usher at his friend's wedding that day. She asked if she could come to the reception so he invited her to the evening do. She came along having been in a panic what to wear etc. He chatted to her, introduced her to those people who asked (just her name) and it was good.
She left and then texted him saying that he had the wrong end of the stick? What? Huh? Eh?
She pursued him for 6 weeks, she invited him out on Friday. She asked him to come out on Friday. She asked him to stay at hers. She asked to go to the wedding but he got the wrong idea?
It is not as tough he introduced her as his girlfriend as he didn't think she was. It was not as though he thought it was anything serious but was prepared to see where, if anywhere, it was going. tt was not as though he was pushy or clingy. He is simply not like that. But she went from being all over him to nothing.
Just
Like
That
I know it happens and maybe it is not just females who are like this but I simply don't get it. Have fun and enjoy it as such. Don't make assumptions as to how the other person feels. Don't treat people like idiots. It is simply unfair.
He is fine. He is laughing about it but it still hurt him. He was not trying to force anything. He was just enjoying a moment. She should have just let him have he benefit of the doubt and carry on with the friendship they had, Now they have both lost out.
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goatboy84:
i hope it hasn't knocked your mates confidence too much. i seem to find women like that as well.
hysteria_22:
Women eh? Can't live with them and all that! 