well if it only ended this morning, give it a little while, a week, maybe two before you try to start anything. don't try to force anything, just let it happen naturally

I understand about the three-months part, but the wedding? Were you wanting something to happen then? I'm confused...

I saw give it a little time, but be there for her. Show her that you are interested by just being sweet to her and by caring.

We've been ordered to make babies in this boards thread.

Let's get on with it, dammit!!

I am so not the type to give advice about relationships. I approach all relationships like Seth does.

So here's my advice. Set up a situation where you two are alone and there is alcohol around. Drink and make a move. If she says no, blame it on the booze.

For a little more practical advice: That same night after you guys start getting down to business. Don't go to far. Let her know that you like her and would like to start seeing her. By not going too far the first night that sends a message that you aren't just interested in sex.

Yeaahh, we're gonna have to do something about that celibacy thing. Because, come on, we need to have the hot sex. We're too pretty together not to!

well, i was just going to write that the senior quote you put in your journal was pretty cool but then i read your journal...
(im kinda a sucker for lovey crap...especially the shit that goes on these days...it seems nothing is innocent anymore.)

anyways, my 2 cents is:
if you are that interested in being with your angel then its all about time. the waiting game. be friends...especially now that the other guy is out of the picture...be friends for a bit. (i am guessing that she already knows how you feel about her so i am working off of that) and, if she does already know how you feel about her then take the next 3 - 4 weeks to just become closer. take her to the movies and hold her hand part way through. take her out to dinner on you. nice things...but dont get physical too quickly. you dont want her to think that that is all you are after. only get really physical if she initiates it (and she is not drunk - if she is drunk dont do it).

i guess the basis is to just be friends but slowly creep into her heart...if you can give me anymore details maybe i can help more. good luck for now though!

well, from a non-assholeish speaker, i very much understand. i wasnt saying to wait forever...but being a girl we tend to need more time than guys to get over things...well, thats the idea anyways! girls can also be more on top of the game that you ever thougt possible! it all depends on the girl!!! good luck with whats going on though...giving her time is good but the realization of not wanting to be a sucker is good too...

[Edited on Apr 01, 2004 8:50PM]

marry me and we'll run off to tahiti, okay?