I can't speak for all woman kind, but I sure as hell don't want one of those, and I have a feeling the kind of woman your looking for doesn't either. It works out quite nicely.
I know what you mean about it being annoying to realize, cause after the doom of the last of my long term relationship (which after he left I kept the diamond) I do still find myself wanting to have someone to commit to.
Never jump through the hoops. Stick true to yourself and some luck person will love ya for it!!
Oh and just crank along being honest and not worried about going out of your way to draw in people by changing... that kind of contrived sucks!
[Edited on Aug 14, 2003]