sweet heart i lov having you as a friend and im so sorry for the drama and dont worry k

I don't know you yet, but after reading such a story, there is no way I could think you're fucked up, no way I could make fun of you, and in no way think you are a joke. I find your strength throughout your horrible relationships very admirable. You are strength for your children, and for those women who may, or are in the same situations.

(Ok apparently this all has to do drama that I had no idea about...so I'm sorry if I commented on something I wasn't supposed to)

[Edited on Feb 28, 2005 1:36PM]

There was a day when I found out what true strength was. I all ready had a failed marriage under my belt at that point, but it still took years for me to figure it out. Life is nothing if you never learn from it and children are . . . wonderful.

Reading the comments and posts on the pages of people that were at the event last night, it appears a little, uh, drama went on.

An understatement, I think.

Thankfully, I managed to duck out before any of that hit, drama makes me feel bad, though I had no stake in any of it. Maybe I have a nose for the really 'bad' stuff. And this stuff sounds like it was pretty bad. Sorry.

Reading your history, rest assured, you have my respect. So, you know, you'll always have that.

[Edited on Feb 27, 2005 8:37PM]

what doesn't kill you makes you stronger... you are a tough girlie for sure!!!! keep it up hun! you are definately on the right track now

you have my respect! i'm sorry to hear that you had it so bad but i'm sure it has made you who you are today and i like that person!

I am proud to know Primadonna as a friend and business partner in working on the calendar, and while I (thankfully) was unable to attend the event and witness first hand what happend, I can say that Primadonna does not deserve any personal attacks from anyone. If she is guilty of anything, she's guilty of caring about other people (both all kids and guys full of Bullshit) more than she cares about herself.
While I may continue, on a professional level, to have a working relationship with many of the people involved in Saturday nights drama I refuse to promote more by discussing it with those who weren't involved.

I don't know anyone of you, although I do spend time in albuquerque. My mantra in life has been this, "Be kind, for every soul you meet is engaged in a great battle."

A'ight,

Peace.

Jase

Keep your head up, this isn't fuckin Jr. High, You should be proud of making it through obstacles, and that you are were you are in your life right now.

first of all everyone needs to fucking grow up and mind their own bizness!( but what else do u ex-spect from a bunch of kids!)

second of all, if someone was talking shit, u should have smashed their fucking face in! and if u need help i will be glad to offer my services.( and i dare someone to talk shit about me, cuz u will all end up missing!!!!)

third, i used to think this site was cool, but ive come to realize that its really just more fucked up, self centered, neurotic, inmature,insecure, worthless fucking human beings! so fuck all ya'll, with your shallow altenative weak ass mind fuck bullshit!

who gives a fuck what these asshole fucking think , u are way past this level !

E-BLaZ! Biiiatch! THATS HOW I ROLL!

One thing you do have to remember sweetie, is that the other person involved is 20! She IS just out of high school. That is the only way she knows how to act. That does not make it right, but you can not expect someone to act like an adult if they are not one yet. You had to become an adult at 18 so it has been a long time since you were in the same mindeset as this individual. That is why it is so hard for you to understand their crazyness and imatureness.

You are way to intelligent to give a shit what two people think! and you know that only TWO people there thought any of those things. SG can be a cool place, just stop and think about all of the people you would not have met and all of the fun things that you would not have gotten a chance to do. For example cali in may, with me.

It is very easy to get sucked into the highschool world, cus you stop thinking and that is easy to do, in the real world you have to think about everything so it takes a little more effort.

Compare this bullshit with the bullshit you have already delt with in your life, this is a mere sneeze. So deal with it like a little sneeze, take a deep breath and its over. That is all the time and energy it deserves. Stop wasting your time on ignorant people and use it to do good like you already do. Just think, of all the other fun and usefull things you could do with your energy once you have stopped wasting your time on this.

You know I love you and will always be there.

You seem pretty smart to me,and you're heading in the right direction......nothing wrong with someone who knows what they want and is'nt afraid to leave the losers in the past.You're doing whats best for you and your kids...way to go.

good luck

stick around

well sweetness i hope you can make it out with us tonight it will be fun just to hang out ...remeber what ive told you okay

♥

You have been through relationships that most people will never have to go through and you have come out of them a stronger woman for it ! Don't let small minded people bother you, it's not worth it ! I can only imagine what you had to go through - especially in your abusive relationships - and you were courageous enough to get out.....just think of the women who are afraid to make that giant step.....you placed your children and yourself out of harm's way and DON'T EVER feel badly about your decisions !

"You are strength : of spirit, of mind, of soul
You are lioness mother, protector.
You are the sum of all your life's experiences.
YOU ARE STRONG : of spirit, of mind, of soul"


For you to have survived is not just a miracle but a testament to your spirit. I was away for a bit and missed this drama but want to let you know how honored I feel that you shared your life experience with me! Not everyone on this site is a youngster. I am 32 and while my life's experience differs from your I will share this:

My mother was in an abusive relationship for 7 years. I admire my mother for having the strength to leave. To find it within her to say enough. I know as an adult how I feel about what my mom did! I admire you for being strong like she was.

I'd consider it an honor to call you friend.