feminista

it's ok to have different ideas for the future. i remember when i felt like you do right now and was worried because the guy i was dating didn't share the same life goals. people grow close and grow apart. it's natural. when the time comes, be happy for the time you had together, not the future you feel you're missing out on. someday you'll meet someone who wants a bunny run too, and things will all be put right.

i find myself with men less romantic than me. lavonne says that when i find the right one, he will be as romantic as i am. maybe that advice works for you too.

and if you're talking about what i think you're talking about in the first part, it's not worth it for your friends to be excited if the only reason you're doing it is for them. and if you took the situation into your own hands and they didn't like you anymore, they are not very good friends. you can only live your life for yourself, not for the people around you.