for the masturbating thing... well, sometimes i take it as a green light and sometimes i just keep my eyes closed and listen. when girl masturbates, it can just be beautiful to listen, to hear her
if she's masturbating I for sure wouldn't go back to sleep - altho I have which really pissed her off didn't help I had my fingers in her pussy at the time tho - lol. But i didn't do it on purpose! Anyway, now what I do is I'll play with her boobs or something in case i DO fall asleep so my sleepness doesn't mess up her cummingness.
This is one of my wife's and my favorite games. She wakes up at 2am or whatever a little horny. She knows I am a light sleeper, so it doesnt take hardly any noise or movement to wake me. She starts touching herself. I pretend like I am still asleep while lightly touching myself until I cant take it. Then I fuck her as hard as she can take
As for your poll, I would try all I can to get in on some of that. There is no way in hell that I would roll over and fall back asleep!!!!!