Oh, I'm so very sorry!!! I wish there was something I could do!!! This may sound self serving: but maybe if you read my love poem to God: "To My Father", you'll find some solace and inspiration. I don't know the details but maybe your grandfather's cancer is survivable.
Love, Chris

so sorry to hear that...
*hugs*

Man that sucks.
What kind?
How old is he?
What's your relationship with him like?
What are you going to do?
Life sucks.
Illness sucks.

That's horrible. I'm sorry to hear that.

Go cry to your date.
See what he's made of.
If a girl had a good reason (as you do) I welcomed the chance to make her feel better.
If he doesn't feel that way, well, fuck him (not literally) and find one of your girls.
But a real man would totally have your back, even if you're new to each other.

I'm sorry dear. My mom is going through it right now too. I'll be of any help that I can.