Whenever I go see a band I stand in the back and jsut listen. Cuz I mean, It's not like I'm not gonna hear it. And then if I want to I work my way to the front.
haha girl i used to HATE hate hate live music!! i still dont listen to it often if im not actually at a show. however I think with the right people (and alot of times the right amount of booze) it can be SO awesome!
the only thing I still REALLY hate is pushing not moshing but just that annoying pushing people do through whole shows its just to intense and I just want to enjoy the music and catch a guitar pick *i totally collect them*
sounds lame but I went to see maroon 5 and it was so calm and no pushing and I was right up front it was so rad.