None of that stuff is all that easy to work out. I'm not sure how good I am at any of it either really. Relationships really can be confusing

im shit at relationships too. I usually believe laughter is the best medicine for everything, until an arguement they she will say "YOU NEVER TAKE ANYTHING SERIOUSLY".... dang.

It's late here. I'm drunk. But, I understand what you mean. I really do. You explained it just fine.

Is *anybody* ever good at the relationship thing? I mean, it's not like you get lessons about it at school or anything. Surely it's just a question of trying to pay attention, trying not to f*** up, and trying not to be too selfish. Just trying I guess. You've got a try, or it all falls apart... *shrugs*

I dont think anyone truly understands how the whole thing works. In my experience the 'x-factor' is either there or it isnt, and no amount of work or 'knowledge' of relationships is going to change that.

I used to be fucking useless, and now i'm merely rubbish. Must come with experience *shrugs*

Well done, you have boobs! Marvellous achievement