Dad's fucking suck! When i was a kid, I begged my mom not to divorce my dad because I loved him so much. He would leave on Friday and not come back until sunday night. He would have gotten drunk and spent his paycheck doing *man stuff* and then my mom would have to worry about paying the bills and buying food for the three of us kids. Every two weeks when he did that to her my heart got so hard toward him. Then i wished for the divorce. Then she got really ill and was diagnosed with MS and then she got too scared to raise us alone. Sometimes shit STILL sucks. 10 years, several anger management classes, court cases and criminal record entries later it STILL sucks. Don't do anything that you will regret. His betrayl is not worth your further suffering. The consequences of angry actions will hurt the very person that you are trying to protect. Think, smart girl, think. Fuck him. Do what is best to help your mom. Think legally the way that the courts will. You and the lawyers will find a way to get his ass. There is too much proof that he is in the wrong for him to fuck her over. Is it an american/u.s. marriage? If so, then (like that movie with george clooney and catherine zeta-jones) the lawyers will NAIL HIS ASS.

I love you girlie. Keep that pretty head up. The best revenge is being successful. Kiss mommy for me.

WELLLLL, i'm goin out to Los Angelas for a long weekend,leavin Wed,to see a bunch of different friends who all moved out there a while back from the midwest.They're all musicians all doin different things in different circles, but im gonna get em all in the same place at the same time.As it hso happens the SG burlesque show is fri. night while im there. From L.A. i fly to N.Y.,N.Y. to pick up a truck i bought on E-Bay,then i have to drive it back to MILWAUKEE,WI. I should be nice and exhausted when i get home. WHy, WANNA COME WITH?LOL

I really don't know what to say. I want to say a sympathetic I'm sorry, but that just doesn't seem like enough. If you need to talk or rant some more or anything, email me. I can listen, if that'd help. And give your mom and yourself hugs for me.

*HUG*

And definitely let me know if you need to talk some more or anything.

your dad and my dad should get together and reminice about how they've fucked over their families. that way we can take care of both of them with just one bomb.

much sympathy for you.

Wow. Just plain wow.
I feel for you.I do. As a person who when through some similar issues when my parents broke up,I can tell you that you are gonna go through some rough patches.Just be there for your Mom.She needs you right now,that's the important thing!

After about ten years,My Dad and I have reached some "compromise" about our relationship.It ain't what I would like it to be but it's there.

Stay strong BabyGurl!

Shit. I'm sorry to hear that.

My aunt, my mom's sister, went through her similiar experience. Her husband had a child with another woman, while she was working in Israel and sending money home to him for his expenses and for the costs in raising my cousin, her daughter.

You have my sincere condolences.

Hey, I'm really sorry. I can't even begin to understand what you're going through. But at least they're letting it end instead of continuing on with some sort of lie. I just hope that you can start to feel better again soon, because you're too cool of a person to have to deal with this shit.

And I'm sorry I haven't been keeping in touch. Life has been rather busy for me. Hope you feel better, I really do.

i'm sorry to see the tattered picture of your life. the moments that we never forget. yet imagine this event in your life is just a pixel to the whole picture. the problem with being human is the inability to see the bigger picture. there is more meaning to this then you can see right now.. give patience and find your strength in yourself. be bigger and walk away knowing your better then this. best of luck and hope all fares your way.

Mercy!! Talk about gettting wind knocked out of your sails. I am here for you also. Please email me privately, I will listen. I do not judge. That is for my higher power, but if I can help in any way, please let me know!!

If at least 10 of those years were spent with dad in the military, and he retired or will retire from it, then she may be entitled to as much as 50 percent of his pension. The military pay centers will send it to your mom, so she will always get it and not have to worry about that. With the current pay scale, she may be entiltled to as much as 1000 a month from the toad.

My heart goes out to you.

Please, if I can be of any help, email me privately. I am here for you.

Hugs and to both you and your mom.

*hugs

i am so sorry to hear that sweety

sorry to hear about all the stuff going on during your trip home. i wish it could have gone better. anyway i'm back home now. thanks for all the advice about japan. i had lots of fun and want to go back. too bad we couldn't hang out or something. take care hon *hugz*

Im sooo sooo sorry. I thought i was stressed with finals and all. I feel so petty. I wish i had something great to say, but i dont. Im not very good at these types of things. All i can say is hang in there, keep you head up. I know its hard, but you have to stay strong for your mother. I wish i had some more words of encouragement for you. So instead ill just give you a biiiiig HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGG@!!!... and a

I'm really sorry things are so shitty. I have no idea how you feel, but I'm sorry.

hey, i don't know yuh, but i feel yuh, i'm sorry it went down like that, don't let him ruin you and your future, be strong.
Mo.