I have to agree for the most part but at the same time, if a guy has confidence in himself (like almost cocky), that's sexy af no matter what body shape he has😉
There's sort of a science to it. Just like in the old days, having a little pudge is a sign of health, and by proxy, wealth. And naturally, money is sexy. But it's not a big surprise if your weight is brought up in an argument. I try and stay in shape anyway, but I'm pretty sure it's all just an act to make you feel better about yourself. I'm not a woman though, so I can't really verify if that's true or not.