Thanks for posting this. I'm reading this during a very painful transition in my life. I'm not one to draw attention to my sorrows, so writing about it is difficult. After eleven years of marriage, my wife and I are getting a divorce. She moved out last month, and while she and I have pledged to remain close friends, I am finding it very hard to get the rest of my life off the ground. I'm still mourning, and will be for some time, but its a painfully slow process. Sometimes I need to be reminded that there are steps I can take to make healing easier, so thanks again for the pep blog.
I'm glad it's helped you in some way and i'm sorry to hear about you and your wife. I always find it sad that even happy people that get married find problems in their relationship enough for it to result in divorce. 11 years of marriage is a big deal, you're 33 right? You were so young when you got married... Only a year older than I am now! I can't imagine getting married in a year. I can understand the loss you're feeling, you two grew up together and im sure you didn't expect it to end up like this. I wish you all the best for moving on, I know its hard but remember you're still young and will have opportunity with Other people. I know it's hard to imagine life without her but just be positive knowing that it won't hurt forever and things will turn out just fine. Good luck!