My sweetie has been ill with the swine flu.
It sucks watching someone you care about suffer because there is only so much you can do. In my case, I have been reading to her. Of course, the book I've chosen--Eat Pray Love--is one I've wanted her to read for a long time. Naturally, I'm seizing the opportunity to force feed it to her.
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It sucks watching someone you care about suffer because there is only so much you can do. In my case, I have been reading to her. Of course, the book I've chosen--Eat Pray Love--is one I've wanted her to read for a long time. Naturally, I'm seizing the opportunity to force feed it to her.
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I love ideas. There seem to be as many ways to perceive the world as there are people to perceive it.
However, when it comes to the various -ologys and -isms--be they capitalism, feminism, compassionate conservatism, or even...gulp...Buddhism--I try to write myself a memo.
Memo to self: Horse first, cart second.
There are a lot of interesting ways of looking at the world. The catch...
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However, when it comes to the various -ologys and -isms--be they capitalism, feminism, compassionate conservatism, or even...gulp...Buddhism--I try to write myself a memo.
Memo to self: Horse first, cart second.
There are a lot of interesting ways of looking at the world. The catch...
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shadowblade:
Why oh why did I have to read your blog. Now you got me started (it does not help that I actually study Social Science at university either), if I was inclined to say anything (I am not but I will anyway), us humans tend to structure our world in order to be able deal with it. We use stereotypes, Concepts, theories, codes, stratagems, etc in order to deal with each different situation that we are in.
The only time that we tend to "come un-done" is when these frameworks spill out from own personal boarders and are forced onto others. Racism (or any other "ism") is an example of this, Racists tend to cling very tightly to their personal Stereotypes of different races and most of them are bolstered by peers and social groups, but, because they do so does not equate that "All Stereotypes are bad". There IS an kernel of truth to most stereotypes, they ONLY become bad when we use them to generalise them to other individuals that we encounter that fall within that category. Neither is socialising for that matter, but, it can be a bad thing in some situations
frameworks do serve their purpose, as they can help us to avoid hypothetical danger (if I encountered a dark alley, I sure as heck would not walk down it unless I had a torch), and situations that we are not fond of and like or not, we are taught how to act because of them (some of choose to break them in one social circle, but that does not mean that we do in another). what it boils down to is learning the limits of these frameworks and what is appropriate for them.
...well, um, yes... great blog post Dan, keep on Philosophising, it is good for the soul!
The only time that we tend to "come un-done" is when these frameworks spill out from own personal boarders and are forced onto others. Racism (or any other "ism") is an example of this, Racists tend to cling very tightly to their personal Stereotypes of different races and most of them are bolstered by peers and social groups, but, because they do so does not equate that "All Stereotypes are bad". There IS an kernel of truth to most stereotypes, they ONLY become bad when we use them to generalise them to other individuals that we encounter that fall within that category. Neither is socialising for that matter, but, it can be a bad thing in some situations
frameworks do serve their purpose, as they can help us to avoid hypothetical danger (if I encountered a dark alley, I sure as heck would not walk down it unless I had a torch), and situations that we are not fond of and like or not, we are taught how to act because of them (some of choose to break them in one social circle, but that does not mean that we do in another). what it boils down to is learning the limits of these frameworks and what is appropriate for them.
...well, um, yes... great blog post Dan, keep on Philosophising, it is good for the soul!
aepaul:
Well, when you get that Giant Robot Army going, let me know. Not insulting your manliness by any means, but I don't think you'll be able to handle more than a million. So let me know if you need some help. 
I'm not a joiner. Never have been.
Even with causes I believe in, I'm more attached to the work or the people than the organization. I'm too socially restless to identify with any one group. I get what I need, give what I can, and move on, looking for new experience.
Groups are interesting though.
I've reconnected with a group I've known for years over...
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Even with causes I believe in, I'm more attached to the work or the people than the organization. I'm too socially restless to identify with any one group. I get what I need, give what I can, and move on, looking for new experience.
Groups are interesting though.
I've reconnected with a group I've known for years over...
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shadowblade:
... looking like a comedian... maybe it is a reference to the way you dress? Hairstyle?
Probably a comment that was based on a whim.
It is always good to catch up with people that you have not seen in quite some time.
Probably a comment that was based on a whim.
It is always good to catch up with people that you have not seen in quite some time.
Latest article is up here"
http://suicidegirls.com/news/geek/23790/Dan%20Brodribbs%20Geek%20Love%20Problems%20No%20Problem/
In Other news, here's an editorial:
A Facebook friend of mine posted <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/note.php?note_id=159653134739&ref=nf">this note</a>. If you're too lazy to look (or not on Facebook), here's the short version: it's on marketing.
I found it kind of a downer.
This isn't a personal shot against the fellow who posted the note. I don't know if he personally subscribes to...
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http://suicidegirls.com/news/geek/23790/Dan%20Brodribbs%20Geek%20Love%20Problems%20No%20Problem/
In Other news, here's an editorial:
A Facebook friend of mine posted <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/note.php?note_id=159653134739&ref=nf">this note</a>. If you're too lazy to look (or not on Facebook), here's the short version: it's on marketing.
I found it kind of a downer.
This isn't a personal shot against the fellow who posted the note. I don't know if he personally subscribes to...
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I've revisited the topic of leading in my latest Suicide Girls article. Leading tends to be a controversial subject on this site, so I'm interested in reading what people think
Article is here:
http://suicidegirls.com/news/geek/23782/Dan%20Brodribbs%20Geek%20Love%20Leading%20Love/
Article is here:
http://suicidegirls.com/news/geek/23782/Dan%20Brodribbs%20Geek%20Love%20Leading%20Love/
realistic67:
I hate to say it but your pretty much waiting for the Ice burgs to refreeze before even one tenth of women start being the lead past drunken telling you your hot. (see my journal...)
I think it's a loss cause..... I'd say work on being more out there and outgoing. It's a skill, like comedy... I mean if you can do that... charm and seduce a crowd into laughing you should be that bad with women.
Then again who am I to talk... I'm kind of enjoying my escape from sexual desperation.
I think it's a loss cause..... I'd say work on being more out there and outgoing. It's a skill, like comedy... I mean if you can do that... charm and seduce a crowd into laughing you should be that bad with women.
Then again who am I to talk... I'm kind of enjoying my escape from sexual desperation.
Latest article is up. you can find it here: http://suicidegirls.com/news/geek/23774/Dan%20Brodribbs%20Geek%20Love%20The%20C%20Word/
urielquinn:
I was starting to think you weren't doing them anymore...
Now I'm off to read it.
Now I'm off to read it.
It would be a lie to say every bad decision I've made recently has started with a phone call from Heavy Metal, but it seems like a significant number of my misadventures are marked with the fingerprints of the reigning OSCW champion.
Last night, I was feeling very smug, self-satisfied, and proud of how responsible and mature I was being by going to bed early...
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Last night, I was feeling very smug, self-satisfied, and proud of how responsible and mature I was being by going to bed early...
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urielquinn:
Hahaha.
What an entertaining evening.
Kudos to Brent, what a champion.
What an entertaining evening.
Kudos to Brent, what a champion.
realistic67:
Hey, I gotta ask... Why three blogs?
I've been spending my street comedy practice for the last week practicing moving from jokes to the transitional material I need when I MC (intros, opening and closing shows, etc.). So if you see me in a random public place introducing people who don't exist, I'm not a crazy person. I'm a comedian.
Come to think of it, maybe I am a crazy person.
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Come to think of it, maybe I am a crazy person.
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More and more, I'm starting to realize what I love about comedy.
It's never the same show twice. No matter how carefully crafted your jokes, no matter how polished your set, the magical thing about live comedy is that you have very little control over a whole lot of big and little things that can completeley change the tenor of the show.
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It's never the same show twice. No matter how carefully crafted your jokes, no matter how polished your set, the magical thing about live comedy is that you have very little control over a whole lot of big and little things that can completeley change the tenor of the show.
I'm starting to...
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jonathanb:
I love listening to Billy Conneley talk about his live shows, thats what he does. Wings it the whole way through pretty much and seeing him is fantastic. It's up and down and all around, completely all over the place but the right place for a comedy show to be. He is a brilliant man.
aepaul:
Robin Williams wings it a lot.
Latest article is up here http://suicidegirls.com/news/culture/23741/[
(reprinted from another blog of mine at hotchicksandstrangers.blogspot.com)
In keeping with the theme of my last post, I just finished a book called "Dangerous men and Adventurous Women," which is a collection of essays on the appeal of the romance novel.
There was a lot of cool stuff in the book, especially about the male lead's role as being the hero and the villain at...
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In keeping with the theme of my last post, I just finished a book called "Dangerous men and Adventurous Women," which is a collection of essays on the appeal of the romance novel.
There was a lot of cool stuff in the book, especially about the male lead's role as being the hero and the villain at...
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aepaul:
I personally think they keep her appearance intentionally vague so a woman can put herself into her. They just say "beautiful" or "attractive" or something generic like that because that's how a reader would like to see herself.
That's just my guess. Not like I'm the resident expert in them, but my wife does have over a thousand (no exaggeration).
That's just my guess. Not like I'm the resident expert in them, but my wife does have over a thousand (no exaggeration).
I've been reading romance novels lately, and not just for the smutty parts.
Fascinating.
I used to be intimidated by the male characters in romance novels. I used to snort at the women (One of whom is my sister) who read them. Like most guys, and a substantial percentage of women, I found them absurd, unrealistic, and borderline sexist.
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Fascinating.
I used to be intimidated by the male characters in romance novels. I used to snort at the women (One of whom is my sister) who read them. Like most guys, and a substantial percentage of women, I found them absurd, unrealistic, and borderline sexist.
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aepaul:
I'll tell you one quality that almost all of the male heroes in romance novels have - they make decisions. Women find guys who make decisions sexy. Romance novels are proof of that.
dan_brodribb:
True dat, aepaul. Thanks for commenting.
Azadeth, normally I don't do this, but I'm cranky today and this my blog not a public forum, so I'm going to call you on your bullshit.
"What's odd is that you seem to think that a significant number of women actually read that crap,"
FYI, romance novels are is far and away the best-selling fiction genre, accounting for over half of total sales. And it isn't men that are buying them.
" that they at least possess the mindset to be affected by it.'
Women are not brainless creatures being 'affected' by romance novels. They read them because they like them. Your implication that they are otherwise is as chauvinistic as anything I've written
"Well actually, very many women appreciate GOOD writing...."
That's true. Although good is a value judgement.
"...about things other than getting drilled by perfect masculine specimens,"
not what romance novels are about. There's sex, but it's typically accompanied by a strong emotional connection unlike say, erotica.
" and if I were such a woman, I'd find this little project of yours sexist and insulting."
You are not a woman. But I'm sure they appreciate you speaking for them.
Thanks for taking the time to comment, Azadeth. I needed to snap at someone today, and I appreciate you being there.
Azadeth, normally I don't do this, but I'm cranky today and this my blog not a public forum, so I'm going to call you on your bullshit.
"What's odd is that you seem to think that a significant number of women actually read that crap,"
FYI, romance novels are is far and away the best-selling fiction genre, accounting for over half of total sales. And it isn't men that are buying them.
" that they at least possess the mindset to be affected by it.'
Women are not brainless creatures being 'affected' by romance novels. They read them because they like them. Your implication that they are otherwise is as chauvinistic as anything I've written
"Well actually, very many women appreciate GOOD writing...."
That's true. Although good is a value judgement.
"...about things other than getting drilled by perfect masculine specimens,"
not what romance novels are about. There's sex, but it's typically accompanied by a strong emotional connection unlike say, erotica.
" and if I were such a woman, I'd find this little project of yours sexist and insulting."
You are not a woman. But I'm sure they appreciate you speaking for them.
Thanks for taking the time to comment, Azadeth. I needed to snap at someone today, and I appreciate you being there.
Refusing to admit to mistakes is probably the worst thing you could ever do to yourself. But, half the problem that comes with mistakes is the responsibility to the problem and the charge to rectify it, and sometimes it is impossible to rectify your mistakes and some people make it difficult to wear.
But, you need to make mistakes... you have to learn somehow
You should take on one those Pick up artists seminars an report back on that.. that would be cool.