deadman69:
sounds like a job for Bob Villa or Tim "the Toolman" Taylor and his assistant Al Borlan...black and grey are the only colors i wear becasue they go with everything and they trap in body heat... and red. tongue biggrin
thefuckoffkid:
Did I just get de-friended? Or am I confused about something? (This is possibly the case.)
docrock:
Money is like a two-edged egg whisk... no, that's not right (searches for correct metaphor, discovers instead his long lost yoda eraser).

Two main things, really. When she and I first met, I was completely honest about the fact that I was still in love with "HER", and that I wasn't going to be sexually exclusive. As her feelings have grown for me, these things have become issues for her, quite understandably - but I also have my own issues about being sexually owned, and simply refuse to go along with it these days.

I've updated my last entry, but since posting it she and I have talked and reconciled. Non-exclusivity conjures up all sorts of things, but I tried to reassure her that I'm not "looking", and my existing "dalliances" are exceedingly occasional - but they have been in place for years, and I'm not going to give them up - or hide/lie about them. She has my emotional attention at the moment, and once you have that, you have it for a long time! So she has weighed up the pros and cons, and decided to take a risk on me - and to trust her impression of me.

Other people always have such potential to do damaging things to you, but you have to trust your instincts about whether they will or not.

In other news, winnie the pooh has been caught soliciting young piglets in a soho toilet - pictures at eleven.
docrock:
Absolutely - 2 marriages have taught me that no bond is unbreakable. What freaks out a lot of my partner's is that if I didn't want to be with them, I wouldn't - there is nothing else holding me there. But very few seem to understand that this is the absolute BEST reason to be with someone - and I think infinitely more secure smile

The piglets are fine - they're receiving counselling at the boo-boo bear youth trauma centre.
helly:
I have no idea what would happen. I am the kind of person who would paint over it all. Then when it fucks out worry about it blush
docrock:
I don't know - without sounding george bush corny, self security makes others feel secure - does that make sense? Or at the very least, knowing where I stand (hopefully) gives my partners security and vice versa. I think it's a nice feeling, but nothing lasts forever smile

In breaking news - the worlds most notorious sexual predator yogi bear has finally been arrested after a high speed chase caught live on police helicopter camera. Film at 8.
feijoa:
thanks darlin! I managed to sneak into womad last night just in time to see Jimmy Cliff and it was fantastic and on saturday I found the best birtday dress for me for two bucks down at an oppie in victor harbour. So my birthday week is off to a good start.....
Hope yr well.
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feijoa:
Thats good about cheap judo, its a constant issue this money biz, it is for me and i'm only a single gal, its far bigger issue for my friends with kids, but being resourceful helps.
What do you think of this; have texted spunk from last weekend a couple of times and he hasn't responded....yet rings me at four am sunday morn telling me he's in town pissed and wants to come back to my place!!!! Luckily i wa in Port Elliot and didn't have to deal with the temptation of lowering my standards at the prospect of hot sex.
phantasy:
ha ha a little goth in the making...I can't help with the other thing, I have no craft abilities!
phantasy:
Mine are girl 9 and boy 2. Things are very interesting between the two of them!
phantasy:
hahaha ok that would just freak me out!
platypuz:
Im no furniture expert but i reckon some stripping (titter) back is needed
Lol..i find phallas a funny word, it sounds like some kind of monument guess i just like the rude version of some words better hehe..ahh my feet feel better already,no it wasa morning shift i started at 7am & finished at 3 ( got an early mark also woohoo) kiss
platypuz:
Lol i am phallas..bow down hehe..have you seen a movie called Zardoz,with Sean Connery

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platypuz:
Zardoz is a great big stone head that floats round the country,vomiting out guns & screaming the penis is evil,its very odd sci/fi move from the early 70s..im quite the fan
yesi remember seeingthat version of Hercules..they did it live in the theare
platypuz:
Well from memory its a post nuke world,warring tribes kinda thing so its got somthing to do with that..its ok you can get heavy..ima good listerner smile
platypuz:
i ahvnt seen it in quite a while so i cant remember that much really..
50 yrs for you to huh..i know exactly where ya coming from..i annoy myself so how i can i expect someone else to put up with me tongue
annis:
Part of me (the evil part) wants to see what the oozy shit would look like. But then your furniture would be all ruined. DILEMMA! surreal
helly:
Your son sounds like a strong character. WHere are your tattoo pics confused
helly:
Yay biggrin
feijoa:
ok... so i got over the idea of the spunk and deceided he was probably just gonna be a root rat that rings when he's pissed and wants to get laid......but then he totally knocked my socks off by ringing me while i was at my birthday celebrations and wanting to come and celebrate with me and my friends, which he did and in te course of the evening said some really interesting things, alluding to the fact that he really digs me and plans to see alot more of me. Which of course i am happy about. He even made a point of telling me that he has to go away for six weeks for work and will i be allright with that?? surreal He builds skateparks for a living..... and is real hot. I'm a little overwhelmed and i think relieved that he's away for a couple of weeks.
I forgot to say about op shops, that i am always on the lookot for old (70's - 80's) golden breed or hang ten t-shirts. You know the stretchy cotton stripey ones? They are quite hard to find these days but if you see any let me know.
Hope all is goodly in your neck o the woods.
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