I definately blame "them" instead of "men", because I know what (or at least have enough of an idea to be disturbed) people are capable of, no matter what's between their legs.

I found myself agreeing with your post a whole lot. My first thought when i hear about rape is to want those men castrated too, though I think there should be some try at rehabilitation first, as some men might just be mentally ill and in need of treatment to stop them from ever doing it again.

I know it's smart, but in some ways I feel so ridiculous saying "I won't go to mardi gras because i'm a feminist". But I think the main thing is that I won't go because i'm smart.