I wanted to write a blog post about a problem I faced recently. A guy sent me a DM on instagram and got upset I didn't reply quickly enough... Then, this sweet nice guy who was complimenting a few minutes earlier was starting to become agressive and frustrated, and wrote about one of my physical flaws, visible on my last set.
Well, this hurted me a LOT. Not because of this stupid guy but because the moment I read his mail I started to become anxious about my upcoming set in the queue. I wanted to remove a pic, but as you guys may already know that's impossible: once a set is submitted you don't have any action on it anymore.
So yes I have variscose veins and blotchy legs because I have an autoimmune condition called Raynaud's phenomenon, and there is no cure for it at the time being. My hands are always red and cold, my knees are purple, my thighs are veiny, etc. And yes, I do have vascularities on my buttocks too. And I hate that but I don't have the choice : I have to live with it.
But I don't care. Well, I do care but I want to learn to let my body image issues go. I want to embrace my flaws. I am far from perfect and that's a good thing because it means I'm a real human being.
So, I want to thank this guy, because his words made me a stronger person. And I also want to thank @rambo for all her kind cheerful words about my future set, it was really nice and reassuring...
I hope you will like this set, it's coming out in 3 weeks!
Love & all