We've never talked, but you have my sincerest well wishes. I hope the saying that it's always darkest before the dawn turns out to be true for you.

I am sorry you are feeling that way. Do you think that it is just right this second and not really how he feels? I have been there. Stay strong!

I hope something comes up to make it work out for you .

I know how you feel about money....it unfortunately plays a WAY too important role in life. It may not buy happiness but it does offer freedom and security at the same time.
I lost my job the day before Australia Day and have a mortgage, so I'm quietly freaking out! Luckily my fiance is still on uni holidays and has a decent paying flexible job, otherwise we'd be screwed....and yeah I don't really like the idea of having to scab off (more likely my fiance's) family for anything either.

Hopefully people around you will see the bind you're in and give a bit of support

Iam a gamer! I love playing halo but if push comes to shove my ass would be working over playing Halo.

My instant thought was from the words of a wise man D.T.M.F.A. or dump the mother fucker already.

Tell him to get off his lazy ass and get a job! hell even if he has to work double shifts at Mcdonald's its called

doing what you gotta do. If he's not willing to do what needs to be done then dump him! I mean my girl

would not have to tell me get off my ass if we need money! I would just be doing it!

Oh and he won't be gettting a job if he is smoking Pot! He'll need to cut that out if he

hopes to pass a drug test! If not then maybe see if you can get a job and if he's

not willing to change and wants to be a lazy bum then dump him.

Oh no my dear I'm sorry to hear that. I truly hope things get better soon.

Whats going on? Why are you going to have to give up on learning to do hair?

Let me ask you, have you had a talk with your boy about this? The key to a health relationship is communication, the only way you can make things better is to talk about it with him.

That sucks. Boys can be a bit (ie very ) dense sometimes. I think you have to sit him down and spell it out for him. And if he still doesn't do something about it then give him a kick in the arse!

I think it may be time you had a little chat with your husband and make sure he knows what's up! We men can be dumbarses sometimes, he probably thinks everything is great. If you make sure he knows exactly how you feel right now with no possibility of misunderstanding or assumptions continuing then you can see how things go from there - hopefully they will improve really quickly!

Good luck

sweetie i'm so sorry. if there is anything you need, you know where to message me. it will all work out.

Oh doll. this isn't good.
Why is your man being a dick?
I hope you work it out, there's nothing worse then feeling resent for the persons who'd meant to be closest to you...

xox

I'm struggling with the same situation, minus the husband spending money on inappropriate things. I wish you well. It's certainly hard to make an honest living these days. And it's even more difficult hen you don't have a safety net.

My words probably won't mean much but hold on, dig your heels in and know that things can always get better. Still, I'm sorry to hear it. xx

Awww missy! Sounds like things are a bit ruff down under at the moment! Big Sky-blue-metropoli-stylee hugz'n'schtuff! I'm sure its just a transient phase* and it'll all work out swimmingly in the end! You're a cov lass....you'r a survivor who always gets what tshe wants!






*I get bonus marks on bullshit bingo for using that phrase!