😣 sorry your cryptic problem is well.... A problem

You have to be true to yourself, your own dreams and passions, your own sense of what's important. That's not to suggest that one can't - or shouldn't - change, but that desire to change should ideally be the fruit of introspection and self-reflection rather than external pressures. I'd suggest. I don't want to intrude on what is clearly a personal 'beef' and I apologise if that is what I have, in fact, just done. I will just say that I've liked you since I first saw your pics and, the more you share with us, the more that liking grows. 😊 (Finding out that you and your boyfriend like LOTR and Star Wars etc has only accelerated that. 😊) All the best!

{{{{{{{{{{{{ ♥ }}}}}}}}}}}}  <<<<< That's a cryptic hug for you, in case you're wondering... ♥♥♥

in the long run you will always be far more respected by always doing what you know is the right thing to do, regardless of what people think. the fakers can only fake it for so long. stay true to yourself and what you believe in.

That feeling has certainly become a widespread sentiment...

It's comprehensible sentiment.The site changes but not in the right direction.I hope that the SG, which are the basis of the community, can make change policy makers of the site.It is clear that there is a problem but we must not give up.It would be a very sad news to see you leave.You miss me too ...

I've been here three days and want no part of it. Outside of a few sets I've even felt the need to comment on, I just look. And you don't have to go far to see either guys piling on, lips pressed to cheek; or, some of the girls one-upping someone else. But I paid my $12. I may as well enjoy the month I paid for.

You don't have to play the games to have a loyal following... Let the fakers fake, stay true.

This is the third blog post in about a week from a girl complaining about how the site has changed. I've only been on the site a few months, so I don't know what it was like before, but it seems to me that there is a deep problem that needs to be fixed.

I have been a member since 2003 and every so often things seem to change and people get hurt and decide to leave. The site has gotten more competitive as it adapts to keep up with trends in social media and seems much more visual with less attention to the girl's blogs and stories of their lives. I will be really sorry to see you go and would like to know what the current problems with the site you have had.

I saw it in the first few weeks I was here... Even as a fan it became clear to me

Yeah the transience is increasing, it's the way of the world. Leave 'em to get on with it & do your own thing. Hope you've picked yourself up & stronger for it. You shine....