I miss Pa..shout out to my fam while you are there!!
Sounds like you have alot on your plate..but seems you have a plan!! I am sure it will all work out!
Be careful. People that demand you drop everything to comfort them may be disguising their manipulation as depression. If they are truly in need of your support, they will still allow you to do things you need to do because they know you'll be there for them in the end. If they make you change all of your plans, drop your friends and sit in the dark so they don't have to be alone they will take your inch and turn it into a mile.
havent been cooking too much other than my usual veggies and rice for work 
but SOOON
Sounds like you have alot on your plate..but seems you have a plan!! I am sure it will all work out!