Thursday Dec 15, 2005

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It's a SAD day in December....maybe I don't know what love is, but i sure think I do! Let me ask you all a question: Have you ever felt like you were always wrong(sick in the head) because someone or a lot of people made you feel that way, but secretly you thought that it wasn't you at all and that you were fine?! I hope I worded that so that you could understand it. See my relationship is slowly falling apart and I'm constantly taking the blame when in reality I don't think it's me at all...I've been with him for 4 years....HELP! frown
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jelly_roll:
Believe me, you're not alone! It's probably not your fault. If you really want this relationship, you both have to meet in the middle and work it out. You see if one person is trying to make it right, and the other is just dragging along, it's not gonna last. I'm on the verge of divorse, all thats missing is the paperwork. For months I tried to keep it, she's moving on. So Im not fighting for it no more. It's her lost and the sad part is, she knows she's losing the best thing in her life. How fucked up is that?!? I do wish you the best. Perhaps your relationship is salvagable! Have a great day Beautiful! Happy Holidays!
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buzzhum:
ITs so very challenging when your in the midst of it. We lose our perspective and blame or take blame when we shouldn't.

In my most private thoughts Ive come to realize that its hard to admit to great faults in our character. We are human and we ALL, every fucking one of us, have bad characteristics. We don't like it, and we put our best faces forward to be the best person we can. When you are with a person for 4 years the facade wears thin, but we carry on like our cover ups are the truth.

Is their a way to have that sort of honesty. Do you think that what I just said has any pertinence to your situation? It takes people of great fortitude to push thru things like that.

In a more simple reply, its almost always true that issues that get blown up..."arguements" are often about the other perosn issues, andnot aobut the topic at all. Its all action/reaction stuff.

Space = Perspective.

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