Take a vacation. Just you and her. Find a babysitter for you daughter, and just you and her go somewhere. That way you can have some relax time, some down time to talk about things. Thats my advice. I mean, i am not married, but when my boy and i are fighting, we try to get away from the world. For example, its been a rough month between us because he got a DWI and we are both stressed out about our jobs. So the 2 of us decided to take a camping trip. It should be fun, and it lets us relax and just chill together, and its not that expensive.

a vacation is a good idea but there are a LOT of other factors with this kind of thing...like, how long have you two been together and how long have you been married how old is your daughter and how long have you been this stressed out and...well...i kinda need more of the story. um...like...what do you find to be the problem with your wife?

I APPRECIATE THE REPONSES.. WEVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A YEAR AND 7 MONTHS OUR DAUGHTER IS 10 MONTHS OLD. WEVE BEEN MARRIED FOR A YEAR AND 3 MONTHS..
MY WIFE AND I HAVE DIFFERENT WORK SCHEDULES SO WE ONLY SEE EACH OTHER IN THE WEE HOURS OF THE MORNING AND ON WEEKENDS.. IM SURE THAT DOESNT HELP OUR SITUATION.. SHE TELLS ME PERIODICALLY THAT I DONT LOOK AT HER THE SAME WAY AS I USED TO AND THAT I DONT DO THE LITTLE THINGS.. SUCH AS LEAVE NOTES ON HER CAR WHILE SHES AT WORK.. ETC,... SMALLBTHINGS BUT THEY SEEM TO MEAN ALOT TO HER.. I KNOW I DONT DO THE LITTLE THINGS ANYMORE BUT WHENEVER IM NOT AT WORK IM WATCHING OUR KIDS. I FORGOT TO MENTION THAT MY WIFE HAS ANOTHER DAUGHTER FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP..
ITS KINDA HARD TO DO THESE THINGS WHEN YOU HAVE A 10 MONTH OLD AND A FOUR YEAR OLD RUNNING AROUND..
ANOTHER PROBLEM WE HAVE IS THAT SHE DOESNT LIKE ME COMMUNICATING WITH ANY OF MY EX GIRLFRIENDS.. AN EXAMPLE I RECENTLY FELL INTO CONTACT WITH AN EX THAT I HAVENT SPOKEN TO IN SIX YEARS.. SHE LIVES THREE HOURS AWAY AND THE ONLY CONTACT WEVE HAD HAS BEEN THRU EMAILS.. AND MY WIFE ABOUT LOST HER MIND WHEN I TOLD HER.. SHE IS NOT ON FRIENDLY TERMS WITH ANY OF HER EXES..THIS REALLY PISSED ME OFF ESPECIALLY SINCE I HAVENT SPOKEN A WORD TO THIS GIRL IN SO LONG..AM I BEING SELFFESS FOR WANTING TO SPEAK TO AN OLD FREIND? I DONT KNOW.. PERHAPS PUR AGE DIFFERENCE HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH.. IT I AM 8 YEARS OLDER THAN HER..DOES THAT MAKE A DIFFERENCE?
I LIKE THE VACATION IDEA WE ARE ABOUT TO GO TO FLORIDA FOR A WEEK BUT WE WILL HAVE OUR GIRLS WITH US... I DONT KNOW. ITS DIFFICULT .. I HAVE MORE TO WRITE BUT THIS THING IS LONG ENOUGH.. THANKS.. CHEERS

curious....what brought u to this site?

so she is around my age......i am working something out for u...give me a few days

I WAS BROUGHT TO THE SITE BY SEEING AN ARTICLE IN SOME MAGAZINE.. I WAS SO IMPRESSED BY THE LOVELINESS OF THE GIRLS ON THE SITE AS WELL AS THE BEAUTY OF THE PEOPLE WHO SUBSCRIBE TO THE SITE.
ITS SO NICE TO SEE REAL WOMEN PORTRAYED NOT THE AIRBRUSHED BLOND MAN MADE WOMEN YOU SEE ON OTHER SITES AND IN ALL OF THE MAGAZINE.. SUICIDE GIRLS SHOWS THAT SEXINESS AND PURE BEAUTY ARE POSSIBLE IN OTHER PLACES THAN JUST THE BARBIE CUTOUT WORLD.

have you ever been good friends with your wife?? before you married? even if it was within the relationship!?
and by friends i mean could you talk to each other about almost everything!!

we only knew each other for 6 months before we got married.
i felt like we talked about everything all the time but the situation was different she had a different schedule then and we saw each other more.. and of course there wasnt a baby around occupying our time..iwant things to waork out but it feels like im always having to prove myself to her.. i wrote earlier about doing those little thing to let her kow im thinking of her.. ive been doing those things again i guess its helped but im not sure.. is it the males job to do these little things.. she doesnt do those type of things and im fine with that.. i guess i feel more confident in the relationship.. i believe she has insecurities about me but she really has no reason ..ive never cheated on her.. i do look at the lovely womwn on this site.. which she doesnt like but.. i dont feel like looking at suicide girls is a cause for jealousy.. is it?

I NEED SOME HELP WITH TATOO IDEAS .. FIRST LET ME FILL YOU IN ON MY INSPIRATION...... WHEN I WAS EIGHTEEN MY TWIN BROTHER DIED OF A RARE HEART CONDITION WHERE THE HEART ENLARGES SO MUCH IT STOPS WORKING..NEEDLESS TO SAY THAT WAS THE WORST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME IN MY LIFE. I WAS FUCKED UP FOR A LONG TIME AFTER THAT I STILL THINK ABOUT HIM ALL THE TIME.. I MISS HIM SO MUCH.. WE WERE NEVER WITHOUT EACH OTHER FOR MORE THAN A DAY AND NOW ITS BEEN 13 YEARS WHICH SEEMS CRAZY TO ME IT FEELS LIKE IT JUST HAPPENED. i ALREADY HAVE ONE TATOO ON MY WRIST THAT COMMERATES HIM.. BUT I REALLY WANT MORE .. IVE HAVE SOME IDEAS BUT I NEED SOME HELP WITH IDEAS.. THANKS.