bongopoko

I didn't think you were being ignorent, feel free to reply in your own time, I think sites like this work best when there is no pressure, especially with all you've been through. Glad to see things are a bit calmer at the moment though I guess you are experiencing an emotional rollercoaster.

Sounds like you are thinking about lots of positive stuff; moving and new jobs are could be what you need?

And if ever space and time concurs I'll take you up on that offer of a drink.

Nice quote

you were right. I had to sign my new name the other day and it was fine, i will be used to it in no time. The day was lovely, can focus on moving to Japan now!