as a former cop, I saw too much of that. sadly the only way people seem to learn is when it is far, far too late. our arrogance as a species is matched only by our stupidity at times.

I hope that your friend's family is able to find the strength they need to keep going. "peace" may or may not ever come.

Thank You Oldernow

If I do have to move, I will give you a heads up.