Is it possible to love two people (one man & one woman) at the same time but in different ways and for different reasons? My what an awsome weekend we had...spent way to much money that we didnt have but damn it was worth it. Ever since my girlfriend came back into our lives I have realized that I am totaly in love with her. I love my husband and would never want to leave him but I also dont want to be without her. I miss her so much when we are not together. I feel like I'm loosing my mind...I'm not really confused because I know how I feel and I know what I feel is real...and its real for all of us. We have all said how comfortable it feels when the three of us are together...I'm talking in all aspects here. It never feels uncomfortable and we all have such a great time together. I dont get jealous of her and she doesnt get jealous of me...we have all openly admitted to loving each other and let me tell you the sex is fantastic 
I hate the fact she is an hour & a half away and I so wish we could all be together all the time...geezz maybe I am nuts after all...I am such a different person when I am with the two of them...I am more outgoing, free, fun, and happy. Ok maybe I am confused I just dont know what to do...I miss her when she is gone and I so want her in my arms all the time along with my husband...I've never been happier than to wake up and have both of them snuggeling up with me in bed and seeing both of them smile at me and give me a kiss and say good morning. hmmmmmm I got to find a job today...I need money...have a great day everyone 
I hate the fact she is an hour & a half away and I so wish we could all be together all the time...geezz maybe I am nuts after all...I am such a different person when I am with the two of them...I am more outgoing, free, fun, and happy. Ok maybe I am confused I just dont know what to do...I miss her when she is gone and I so want her in my arms all the time along with my husband...I've never been happier than to wake up and have both of them snuggeling up with me in bed and seeing both of them smile at me and give me a kiss and say good morning. hmmmmmm I got to find a job today...I need money...have a great day everyone
how does your hubby feel about her?
have you and your hubby talked about maybe making it the "3 of you" ?
If you feel so strongly for them both and the feelings are mutual among the 3 of you then I personally say look into it. who cares what others think. you need to do what will work for the 3 of you. Its something that would require alot of "rules" set forth and get everyone on common ground. Give it a try.... see what happens
Brian
(who might be eloping soon