bhavok

So there are a few things that are on my mind.. If you read my last entry, well this is kind of a continuation of it, cause I did it from my Iphone, and its hard trying to type a long entry from a pop up keyboard, but here we go..

So my last entry was about how my friend calls me and tells me that he and his wife got divorced, and how if he signs over full custody to her for their daughter that she won't make him ever pay child support.. So my best friend from high school who has been in the army since 2001, ended up meeting his wife in the army over in afghanistan when he got deployed a few years back.. Funny part about their story is they only grew up maybe 20 minutes from each other and now it took them going over to another country on the other side of the earth to finally meet.. In a warzone of all places..

So he called me last night, and he tells me about how his wife got back a few weeks ago, and now from being over in Baghdad, Iraq for a year, only seeing each other twice in 1 year, and frequent emails, that she has decided that her perspectives and priorities in life have changed.. and she was divorcing him, and leaving him..

Now its not my place to say anything, except for being there for a person who is like my brother to me, we've experienced alot together.. But the thing that pisses me off in this whole situation is that my friend wanted to come back home, because he's stuck on a island in the middle of the ocean, with 2 dogs.. No contact from his wife, which I understand your in a war, ok.. But I have talked to him alot, through out this past year that she was gone.. and It just pisses me off to know what my best friend for many years now, has gone through, waiting for her.. Now it's not my situation to say anything but supportive, but from what he's told me of her, Im sure she had cheated on him, cause well she has in the past, when they originally went out.. and then seperated, and she basicly became the Army skank.. I'm not going to ever bring that up to him.. But I have my own judgements of her..

So to say my trip out to Hawaii in december will be a bittersweet one cause I know he'll be coming home soon, but apart of my best friends life is out there.. So I will be going out there to see the Pearl Harbor anniversary ceremony, but also to help him pack up some stuff, and start moving back east.. So Hawaii isn't always going to be paradise to some people..

And it makes me kind of greatful when I look back at things that I didn't get married at 22, even though I was EXTREMELY close..

i've take some NEW pics with my Iphone, so check them out in the Iphone folder..

i hope all is well with everyone, and doing well.. If not, and you wanna chat, message me..