The first time I ever shaved my head I went through this brief freakout,thinking I had made a mistake and that I ruined my femininity. But as I started getting used to it, I realized I could show off my earrings and my delicate neck. Eventually I felt not only feminine again, but confident, sexy! I'm sure you look wonderful.
I have a friend that went through the same thing when she cut her hair short. But she found that short hair can still be just as attractive and a lot of fun! She actually gets more attention then before when we go out. I'm sure you'll do the same once the shock subsides. And if not, it will grow back! :D