Yes, being the step-mom does suck. Especially since Vanny and I aren't married yet. See, they are still in the process of the ugliest most drawn out divorce I have ever seen! Soooooooo, until it's over with I have to stay in the background pretty much. I've been a part of these kids lives for 3.5 years and I can't really get involved. It's horrible! Their mother only lets me get as involved as she wants me to..basically whenever it's convenient for her..whenever she has plans and Vanny can't watch them...then it's okay for me to watch them...or if she can't pick them up from school, and Vanny can't pick them up from school..then suddenly it's okay for ME to pick them up from school. Oh, and for a while there I was watching them every day after school, and I wanted to start taking them to places like the park and the library...well, one of the kids mentioned that to thier mom and she had a shit fit! She called Vanny and chewed him out saying that SHE wanted to take the kids to do stuff like that and that it wasn't fair because SHE didn't have the money to take the kids places...so he pointed out that the park and library were free...and she said well I don't want HER taking them. I want to take them...and she also said that she would rather them just sit at our house, bored out of their skull, then for me to take them somewhere fun...because SHE didn't have time to do that kind of stuff..she's basically a selfish bitch...but god, when this divorce is finally over..I am sooooooo going to take the kids where ever the hell I want to! I am going to go to their school events, I may even make it a point to talk to their teachers. I was thinking about being a room mother or something for the younger two. The youngest has some learning disabilities, so she may actually be in a different school next year though, and I don't know how that works. She is in her second year of kindergarten and she's still having problems...I'm sure her living situation isn't helping any either...sigh..I'll be SO glad when I can get more outwardly involved!! As it is, I don't know all that's going on..only what goes on when the kids are here..it's frustrating...Vanny is fighting for custody of the kids..god, I hope he gets it!
I read your post in MissMorbids, and I have been rejected twice for my sets....I finally shot a set that looks like everyone elses..now time will only tell if this is the pattern the site will follow.
i know exactly how u feel sweetheart. good god do i. id love to hang out and talk about our shit thats goin on. lemme know n well plan sumthin. its good to have friends who actually get it. hugs n kisses.
oh god yes i was all pink for like 4 weeks. my clothes, my pillow, my hands, my keyboard, anyone i hugged. lol. not when i dyed it red i dont think. but the pink...crzy. worth it though!!!
hey doll. Actually I'm pretty sure all I need is an exotic animal license and I can have them... I am going to be doing a lot of reading and I am actually going to be taking some wildlife biology courses soon as well... I watched a thing on animal planet and a girl that does the same thing said all she did was read on the cats a lot and went from there.
if you decide upon a youth large or youth medium (hott) then i can give you red black or green ink) but if you want sizes bigger than youth i can give you a grey black or white shirt with red black green or white ink