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2018 was a really difficult year for me.. I went through a lot and have had to adjust my entire life.

I’m hanging on. Barely, but I’m pushing myself through my sickness. I want to thank on everyone who has sent me messages checking on me, I appreciate that more than I can say and I promise to get back to all of...
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matterz:
Absolutely. Sometimes things are tough and i think when you come out the other side you realise you have to really appreciate the good times. Im watching the goonies in an attempt to cheer myself up right now haha
thrasherx:
I'm just randomly wondering in due to your having simply liked a post I did in a group. That being said I want to say though , I'm sorry you had go through it and I'm glad you seem to be better! Cancer is something I hate and loath, Ive lost too many to it. My wife actually had to have a procedure done 3 years ago as a tumour was found that though at the time was deemed benign, there was a fair chance it would go the other way. It was one of the hardest decisions to do as it cut off our choice to ever have children, which on one level we felt we were not meant to have anyway. Afterwards I dealt with a lot of anger, not at her of course but at it.@arsenicstar
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My sweet, loving Cats and Bats.. I cannot express how excited I am for you all to see what @leemalee and I created in a freezing cold creek earlier this year.

I promise to write a more full length blog with tons of photos, because a lot has happened, and I haven’t had much energy to sit and write about it..

BUT— I love
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wizard0:
Excellent butt!  And sadly, did not celebrate.
chriskp:
I can´t wait, great pic @arsenicstar
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I’m currently in Florida, till the first week of April.. though I haven’t even been able to enjoy it. I’ve been fighting this flare, and trying to stay on top of my liquid intake so I don’t get dehydrated, which happens too easily. Once I get dehydrated, I can’t keep anything down, and it’s almost cost me my life...
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dansiego3:
I’m sorry to hear there is even more going on than the crohn’s, like that is not bad enough!  One of my friends is suffering some autoimmune stuff that is affecting his gut too, it is a nightmare to figure out what is going on with him.  It gives him crohn’s like symptoms, skin lesions, joint paint.  He’s at his wits end trying to figure out what to do about it.  Sjogren’s confirmed.  Some of the drugs they try on him just have the worst side effects.  Cosentyx being the latest one i think.  I hope you get some relief time sweety.❤️
arsenicstar:
@dansiego3 *hugs* Thank you, Lovie.. I have a number of health issues due to being born prematurely, but it’s all normal to me, so I deal.😌 I’m counting down the days till I can get back home to the medication my body needs.. being away from it all has given me a deeper appreciation of home, and what it offers. Thank you again for being such an angel, you have no idea how much it means to me. Please give your boy a big hug for me too.😌🤗💗
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Please don’t ever forget that there are those around you, that have no family, or traditions.. They struggle through the holidays, just waiting for it all to be over. Remember those people today, pay attention, and take nothing for granted.🖤

Happy holidays, my Cats and Bats..

xoxo

ArsenicStar

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arsenicstar:
@dansiego3 Merry Christmas my Love! I hope you and the Mrs had an amazing holiday!  Love you two!💗💗💗
coalsomnanna:
Can I be the catbatty boi?
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24 years ago, a singer in a band sexually assaulted my husband and his best friend when they were 13 and 14 years old. They were unwilling participants, and the events have affected both of them drastically.

For years, even though the events were well known, it was thought of as a “cool story.” It wasn’t.

Recently, this singer came out with her own...
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dritzella:
This is awful. I hate when people are all for a cause until they find themselves at the other end of the stick. I hope everything settles quickly for your husband and his friend. Being attacked by the person who victimized you is never easy 
arsenicstar:
@dritzella Thank you so much, Lovie.. this whole thing has just been so crazy and heartbreaking. We’re dealing with it, but getting through it has really been hard. *hugs* I appreciate your sweet words, so much.