24 years ago, a singer in a band sexually assaulted my husband and his best friend when they were 13 and 14 years old. They were unwilling participants, and the events have affected both of them drastically.

For years, even though the events were well known, it was thought of as a “cool story.” It wasn’t.

Recently, this singer came out with her own...
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arsenicstar:
Thank you all so much.. I’m pretty appalled at the lengths and grasps. This whole this has been so ridiculous and completely heartbreaking. The boys are a mess, I’m a mess.. and more people are being attacked everyday. I wish they would have handled this more gracefully, and I really wish I hadn’t have snapped and lashed out. I went completely against my nature and who I am, and actually engaged with him. Once the shock wore off, I was just as angry with myself.. The last week has been too much.
chriskp:
Don´t be angry with you, sometimes you have to let it out. I´m trying to be in control and be kind and nice but sometimes you can´t swallow the anger down anymore. I hope it boils down and you and your husband can take the time to try to heal the wounds from the past. 

xoxo💋

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jozsef:
It's been 11 years for me, which seems like a while but I see you've got me beat. 😍 
arsenicstar:
It's actually only been about 14 for me, but I'm so proud to be a part of this family, I celebrate all the years.☺️ @sean and @missy gave me the greatest family I have ever had, I appreciate them and this community more than I could ever express..💗

The amount of never-ending adversities that have been thrown in my lap over the last year has been absolutely insane, these last few months especially.

Those that know me, know how much the slightest amount of stress will send my body into a Crohn's flare, which often includes incessant vomiting of blood and bile, and constant trips to the bathroom where I proceed to
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tali79:
Love you. Hope your crohns has died down. If you ever need to talk to relieve some stress give me a call or texted. Miss you young lady
arsenicstar:
Thank you my Loves.. The last couple days have been a step up, I've been moving around a lot more, and went for a walk on the beach, which always helps me feel better. I literally take life breath by breath, so I don't overwhelm myself. I'm so grateful to be alive and be around the people I'm around. I'm blessed in so many ways, and sometimes I just need to take a break from it all, as it can be too much at times. Thank you so much for sticking by my side through all of this.. 💗